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ServicesWays we can work together

My work is with both individuals and relationships. Groups, consultation, and speaking are all available too.

Every option below starts the same way — a free 15-minute consultation, so we can both find out whether I'm the right fit before anyone commits to anything.

Service options

Individual Sex Therapy

$220  ·  55 minutes

For anyone working through desire that's changed, sexual pain, shame, sexual trauma, difficulty with orgasm, questions about identity or orientation, or simply wanting to understand how they're wired.

This is the heart of my practice. You don't need a partner, a crisis, or a diagnosis to come — curiosity is reason enough.

Couples & Relational Therapy

$220  ·  55 minutes

For partners navigating desire differences, disconnection, opening up, or repair after a betrayal. Available for couples and for relationships of more than two.

Longer sessions are often worth it here. Relational work benefits from room to breathe.

Extended Sessions & Intensives

Prorated from the 55-minute rate

We aren't limited to the therapeutic hour. Additional time can cover more ground, allow a slower pace, or reduce the total number of sessions you need.

Anything from a 90-minute session to a half-day intensive. If you have something in mind that isn't listed, ask — I'm happy to design it with you.

Consultation for Therapists

$220  ·  55 minutes, prorated

For clinicians who want to work more confidently with sex, sexuality, and intimacy in their own practice. Bring a case, or bring the discomfort.

Most graduate programs offer almost no training in human sexuality. If a client raises something and you feel yourself tighten, that's worth talking through with someone who won't.

Therapeutic Groups

Fees vary by group and duration

Small groups on specific topics, capped at six people so the discussion stays real and everyone gets attention.

There is a particular relief in discovering you are not the only one. Ask what's currently forming.

Speaking & Workshops

Fees vary by engagement

Talks and workshops for organizations, clinical teams, and community groups — on sexuality, intimacy, communication, and working with these topics without flinching.

Tell me about your audience and what you're hoping they walk out with.

Payment and insurance

I don't bill insurance directly. I'm happy to provide a Super Bill you can submit to your insurance company as an out-of-network provider, which may or may not result in reimbursement.

A credit card is kept on file for all payments, including late cancellations and missed appointments. You can bring whichever card you'd like to use to the consultation or first session.

Good Faith Estimate (No Surprises Act, 2022)

You have the right to receive a "Good Faith Estimate" explaining how much your medical care will cost. Under the law, health care providers need to give patients who don't have insurance or who are not using insurance an estimate of the bill for medical items and services.

You have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate for the total expected cost of any non-emergency items or services. This includes related costs like medical tests, prescription drugs, equipment, and hospital fees.

Make sure your health care provider gives you a Good Faith Estimate in writing at least one business day before your medical service or item. You can also ask your health care provider, and any other provider you choose, for a Good Faith Estimate before you schedule an item or service.

If you receive a bill that is at least $400 more than your Good Faith Estimate, you can dispute the bill. Make sure to save a copy or picture of your Good Faith Estimate.

For questions or more information about your right to a Good Faith Estimate, visit cms.gov/nosurprises or call 1-877-696-6775.

Dr. Lily Zehner seated beside the teal velvet couch in her Denver therapy office

Curiosity is reason enough.

You don't need a partner, a crisis, or a diagnosis to come.

Start with a free 15-minute consultation

We'll talk about what's going on and whether I'm the right fit for you. If I'm not, I'll point you toward someone who is. No pressure, no paperwork, no cost.

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